"Different Massages"

Pole Massage 

    The positive poles in the body also work in the manner that is similar to the poles of a battery. The poles in the body are responsible for sending and receiving sexual energy. Positive poles massage concentrates on these poles that are present in the body and these poles make a person feel sexy and alive when they are positively charged. The steps to be followed for giving this massage are mentioned as follows: The man has got to lie down on his back, and the woman starts rubbing his pelvic region and this includes his genitals. There is no need or hurry to push him towards his climax. Keep him on edge, while promising a sweet release after a while.

    The second step is to massage his third chakra; the Solar Plexus Chakra that’s present above his belly button and along the lower end of his ribcage while keeping the energy that is generated within his body. To facilitate a smooth movement while massaging him, make sure that your hands are well oiled.

    The third step is to massage his fifth chakra, his neck and shoulders as well. The fifth chakra is the Throat Chakra and while massaging it makes sure that you are making use of your fingertips on the sensitive skin around the throat and the neck. 

    For making your partner feel all the dormant sexual energy that is present in his body to start moving, you will have to place one hand of yours on his forehead and the other one on his genitals. 

    Now, switch places with the woman so that she is lying face down on the massaging surface. In this manner, both the partners get an opportunity for experiencing the bliss of getting a tantric massage. Start out by massaging her second chakra, the sacral chakra, while massaging this chakra make sure that you have included several gentle strokes in a circular motion in a clockwise direction. 

    Then move onto massaging her chest and this includes massaging her breasts as well. Make sure that you are massaging the area above her heart. This will help in improving the circulation of blood in her body.

    The third step of this massage is to place a finger right on the bridge of her nose and then start stroking upwards and towards her hairline very gently. This will massage her sixth chakra and open it up.

Fusion massage 

    Fusion means two things are merging together as one. One of the main principles of tantric teachings is that our bodies are made up of bioelectrical systems and we are designed in such a manner that our energy is capable of getting merged with the energy of another person. This is the basic rule of the fusion massage, and it has been explained as follows.  

    Sit on a comfortable surface while facing your partner so that your palms are touching his and gently hold onto his wrists. The next step is to place the middle finger of your right hand on your partner’s heart and your partner has got to do the same. This is the area where the Heart Chakra is located. Take turns to caress each other in a gentle and slow manner. The partner who is receiving the caress is supposed to sit still, and this helps in building some anticipation. Now, you have got to shift into a yab-yum position. In this position, the male partner has got to sit cross-legged on the floor and the woman has to straddle his lap and wrap her legs around his torso. Don’t let the caressing stop and stay in this position for a while. After a little while, you can shift into the star position. In the star position, both the partners have got to lie on their backs in such a manner that the hands of one partner can touch the other partner’s feet. The advantage of this position is that it gives both the partners a chance to calm down and blow off some steam. When you can touch and stimulate each other’s chakras, it opens them up and helps in forming a psychic connection between both the partners and helps them connect on an emotional level.

Chakra massage 

    You might be thinking that all this talk about chakras seems complicated. However, it is really easy to understand the way chakras work. These chakras can be thought of as the doorways to the Cosmos, and it is crucial that your chakras align with the chakras of your partner. When your chakras align perfectly with those of your partner, it will mean that you are both perfectly compatible on a physical as well as a spiritual level. This particular massage will help in relaxing you, and it will also heighten your senses thereby magnifying your ability to seek and enjoy pleasure. Like mentioned earlier, this will also assist in bringing you and your partner closer to each other. This massage is all about massaging all the six chakras that are present in the body. 

    The first thing that you are supposed to do is make sure that you and your partner are breathing in sync with one another. By making use of two of your fingers, start gently massaging the pubic hairline of your partner for a few minutes and then let the palms of your hands rest at that spot for two minutes. The second chakra that is situated near the region of the lower belly should be given similar treatment as the first chakra. Make sure that you have made use of sufficient oil so that your fingers can gently glide all over your partner’s body. Start massaging the third chakra in the same manner. The third chakra is located at the solar plexus, the region below the ribcage and above the stomach. Keep repeating these steps till you have covered all the chakras that are present in the body. Making use of the circular motion while massaging the chakras will help in opening them. While massaging the erogenous zones on your partner’s body. Do make sure that you are being thorough and are spending some extra time massaging him or her. This will help in building up anticipation and get them excited for more. This will make them come alive with sensations while also experiencing the feeling of being fully grounded. Keep teasing all their senses. The promise that there’s more in store will keep them eager about what they can expect and make it interesting.

    Make sure that you aren’t trying to massage your partner without using massage oil or some form of lubricant because it would be extremely uncomfortable for them and the friction can cause a burning sensation that would not be pleasurable in the slightest. If you are aware that your partner is suffering from some form of a skin condition like a rash or an allergy, then it is best that you avoid massaging them for the time being. It wholly depends on you and your partner the course you would like the massage to take. Keep an open mind while giving or receiving the massage. Don’t expect anything, and take things as they come. Only then will you be truly able to experience the real pleasure of a tantric massage.