"Tantric Massage Techniques"

   

     Massage is a great way in which tension can be relieved and it does help in improving the circulation of blood and energy throughout the body and also helps in sexually arousing your lover. Massaging is mutually satisfying, and it helps couples in exhibiting their intimacy for each other. This age that we live in everyone is starved for touch, and a massage is the simplest and quickest fix to this problem. You might be wondering if it is easy. Well, you don’t have to be a certified masseuse for being able to give a good tantric massage. The most important aspect of a good massage is the desire of wanting to please your lover. Here are a few suggestions.

    Setting the mood and creating a romantic ambiance is the best way for getting started. Dim the lights, burn some fragrant candles or mild incense, play the music that your lover enjoys and that relaxes them and, lastly, make sure that the room is comfortable and warm. Well, you both will be creating some heat on your own in a while, but till then it is important to keep the room at a temperature that is comfortable because you both will be naked. You can make use of perfumed mineral oil; massage oil or a combination of oils. Make sure that you are using some oil, or else it wouldn’t be a pleasurable experience.

Start with the back 

    Two tablespoons of oil would be more than enough to get you started. Pour this oil into your hands and then rub them together so that the oil is slightly warm and nice to touch. Then you will need to place your hands on your lover’s back. Start from the lower back and move upward until you reach their neck, around the shoulder blades and then back down, over the butt and the rosebud.

Hand slide 

    Now that your lover’s back is well oiled, you will have to place your hands such that they are parallel to each other and then slide them down on either side of the spine, massaging downwards from the neck to the buttocks. Then move your hands all the way over to the neck, then the shoulders and down your lover’s arms till you reach their fingertips. Keep repeating this motion for at least six times. While you are doing this, don’t forget to ask your lover for their feedback. You can do what they like and if your partner isn’t the talkative sort, then maybe you should make sure to keep the strokes gentle and slow. Remember, it is all about giving as much pleasure as you can to your lover.

Pull-ups 

    This move will add a slight variation to the massage. As you are moving your hands along their body and stroking your lover’s sides, then try alternation one hand and then the other. You should start out by placing your hands on your partner’s hips and then gently move your palms towards their spine. Keep moving your hands towards their waist and pull them up towards their spine. Then you should take your hands towards the side of the chest and pull it up towards the spine. Place your hands under their armpits and pull your hands upwards towards the spine. Make sure that you do this on both the sides and not just one.

Kneading 

    If you have had any experience kneading dough for pizza or even for baking, then this technique will be easy for you. If you haven’t, then start out by gently squeezing your lover’s back and then buttocks between your thumb and the fingers. Then repeat the same motion with the other hand as well. Now you should slide your hands to a different area on the back and repeat the same process. Keep doing this until you have covered all the parts from their neck to their buttocks. The pressure that you apply will depend on the flesh that’s there. For instance, chubby areas like buttocks can take more pressure than the neck where there is less flesh. So go on and squeeze a little bit harder. You can also spread the butt cheeks and knead further. This technique can be stimulating for the receiver.

Feather stroke 

    Before you have moved towards the thighs, focus on the lover’s neck and caress it. Keep on caressing the neck, arms, shoulders, back and their buttocks as well with just your fingertips. Use the least amount of pressure, and it should feel like they are being stroked with a feather, do this for a couple of minutes. If you have fingernails, then you can lightly run your nails along their body and gently scratch them. Be careful not to hurt your lover during this process. You can move your fingertips in circular motions, long fluid strokes, or even side-to-side caresses. The light and tickly caresses and strokes will simply build the sexual anticipation because your lover won’t be able to anticipate your next move.

Foot caress 

    You will probably need a little more oil so don’t forget to take some oil into your palms, before spreading it on your lover’s body. Make use of the hand slide technique on the calf and the thigh slowly. Follow the hand slide with the kneading technique and then move onto the feathery caresses. Do this for one leg at a time, and you will have to repeat the same order of techniques on the other leg as well. Feet are erogenous zones, and they do deserve some attention. Take one foot at a time and then smother it in oil, spread it around the ankle, then the heel and even between the toes. Make use of your palm and slide it over the bottom of your lover’s foot. Do this a few times and gently rotate each toe in clockwise and then in counter clockwise motion. Gently tug on each toe and slightly pull it away from the body. Depending upon the reaction of your lover, you can vary the pressure that you are applying.

Turn your lover over 

    By the time you turn your lover over, you will notice a smile playing on his or her face because this massage is relaxing and deeply sensual as well. Continue the massage by shifting your focus to their stomach and then the chest or breasts. You will learn more about the breast massage in the coming articles. You will need to rub some oil in your hands and then place them on the center of the stomach, move them towards the nipples and back down again. Repeat this a few times, and it helps in moving the energy along their body. Female breasts are sensitive, so be gentle with them. The male chest is capable of handling more pressure, and a firmer stroke can be used. 

    These are the general erotic massage techniques that can be made use of during a tantric massage and you will learn more about it in the coming articles.