"Lingam Massage"

   

    Tantric massage for men in the initial stage is directed towards helping them open up their chakras and for stimulating their senses. In general, men tend to keep their emotions locked up and instead focus more on their strength and their prowess instead of enjoying the act and they tend to concentrate more on the orgasm instead of enjoying the pleasure they are instrumental in. Also, men tend to hold onto the notion that they are supposed to be active all the time. This makes it really difficult for them to be calm, receptive and not do anything. Tantra teachers tend to give their students different exercises and techniques that can help them in learning to relax, letting go, enjoying the moment and developing a stronger and a deeper bond with their partners. The exercise that’s mentioned here is something that all men will enjoy.  

    Allow for plenty of time for a tantric massage. Set aside a minimum period of two hours, but it is better when there is no time limit as such. Adjust the massage timing in the evening so that neither you nor your partner have got anything else to do and can bask in the afterglow of the massage, or perhaps go to bed while holding each other and fall asleep. Women, this is your chance to not only pleasure your partner but also show them how much you love them and your willingness to pleasure your partner. The objective of this massage isn’t about helping your partner reach his orgasm, but it is about providing him with a sensual experience that he will actually enjoy. So, take some time and get everything prepped for this massage.

    Before the chosen time of the massage, or when your partner isn’t around, you can select a few objects that you can make use of during the massage. You can opt for items that have different textures and are of varying degrees of firmness. A few suggestions would be peacock feathers or any other light feathers, silk scarves, a woolen muffler, marbles, leaves, flowers and so on. Let your imagination run wild. Select items that would feel different against his skin but not uncomfortable or unpleasant.

    Just before starting the massage, grab a few scents that you can make him smell, like a fresh orange, cut slices of apple or pear, cinnamon, basil, essential oils or any other scents that you like. Do make sure that the scents that you are opting for are very mild because you are going to be using many scents. Gather six different scents and avoid highly scented items like soaps, concentrated perfumes, incense or even cologne. Don’t include a scent that you usually use. The smells should be subtle and natural. Lay them out on a table in the massage room and place a towel over them.

    A crucial part of the human sexuality is learning about the penis, loving it and not being afraid of doing so. There are two methods in which the lingam massage can be performed. The first method is for men to learn so that they can practice “peaking” through masturbation. The second method is the one where the partner would give the man a nice relaxing massage. Lingam massage can be thought of like foreplay, or it can also be independent of sex altogether. Most women aren’t comfortable with handling a man’s penis, and if this is the case, then it would do you some good to set aside a little while to reflect upon the reasons for the negative impressions that you might seem to have about the penis. 

    Tantra teaches that there needs to be a bond between the partners that is capable of transcending all physical boundaries. It is about connecting with your partner on a personal level and also about connecting with the sexual energy that is present in your partner’s body. Lingam massage is one way that will help you in achieving this. Well, to put it simply, lingam massage is a fancy word for referring to a hand job. However, this has to be done with a lot of respect, care, love and yearning for bringing selfless pleasure to your partner. Unlike a regular hand job, Lingam massage includes not just the mere massaging and the stroking of the penis of a man, but it also makes use of and incorporates various other techniques that include the massage of the testicles, the perineum and the prostate.

    Lingam is the Sanskrit word that is used for penis, and it means “wand of light” when translated. In the philosophy of Tantra, the penis or the lingam has been approached from a place filled with respect, love and care. The same approach is made use of for a women’s yoni or vagina as well. By bringing pleasure to your partner through his lingam, both the partners would be filled with a sexual energy that is a result of the conscious energy between the individuals.

    Lingam massage is a particular practice that honors a man, and it is done with the intention of bringing him immense pleasure. There’s a lot of sexual energy that is trapped within a man’s penis. Learning the ways in which this energy can be stimulated as well as circulated will help in forging a strong bond with your partner. 

    In fact, in India, there are states of Shiva lingam that are considered to be sacred and are worshiped fervently. The statues of the lingam represent Shiva, one of the most powerful Gods according to Hindu mythology. For most of the people, this lingam also accounts for a pure state of meditation. However, for all the tantric practitioners, this lingam holds a secret meaning. It depicts all the energy that is trapped in a man’s body and is considered to contain masculine essence, and it is all concentrated in one place.

    Therefore, if you want sex to become a sacred experience, then you will need to adopt an approach towards a man’s penis that would treat his body as a temple wherein the all powerful sexual energy of the cosmos rests. Lingam massage isn’t about having an orgasm or about performing a sexual act. Instead, it is all about trying to find more pleasure and it is about feeling more in general, that will in turn become a wave of immense pleasure.